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      <title>#29. Subject or Object? posted by brian @ Fri, 11 Jan 2008 22:43:08 -0000</title>
      <description>&lt;p align="justify"&gt;Robert Kegan, in his classic book, &amp;ldquo;In Over our Heads,&amp;rdquo; talks about subject-object orientations.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;Try this one on:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;How you see the world is your subjective perspective.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;What you look at through that subjective perspective is the &lt;em&gt;object&lt;/em&gt; of that subjective perspective.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;So far so good?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;Now, here&amp;rsquo;s the trick:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;Can you make your current subjective perspective the OBJECT of a NEW perspective?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;In other words, can you step back and &amp;ldquo;look at&amp;rdquo; the current way you see the world?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;Sounds simple/easy but that&amp;rsquo;s a &lt;em&gt;really &lt;/em&gt;powerful thing to be able to do. When we&amp;rsquo;re not locked into one perspective on the world, we have the flexibility to shift into a healthier way to see things.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;Most of us tend to get locked into our perspective and think it&amp;rsquo;s the absolute truth. Not so effective.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;We need to hold the spaciousness to see more and more perspectives. Make it a game. Have fun. (Might want to make &lt;u&gt;&lt;a href="http://brian.zaadz.com/blog/2007/10/big_idea_persona_yoga"&gt;Persona Yoga&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/u&gt; part of your spaciousness practice. :)&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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